Category Archives: Divorce
Think Before You Curveball Divorce
Leave it to the Internet to make up new names for things that aren’t new and act like it just discovered or invented them, especially when it comes to relationship trends. For the past few years, the Internet has talked about gray divorce, but this is not a new phenomenon. Rather, before there were… Read More »
Getting Your Fair Share of the Marital Property After Financial Future Faking Has Wrecked Your Marriage
When you complain to a wise elder about how someone got your hopes up, the wise elder will remind you that no one can get your hopes up unless you let them. Many divorced people are divorced because they realized too late that their expectations about the future did not match their spouses’ expectations;… Read More »
Navigating Awkward Social Situations After Divorce
Divorce increases financial stress for almost everyone, even people who were financially well off during their marriages. Adjusting to lean times, which might only become leaner in the future, is not the worst part, though. The hardest part of divorce is finding a new way to interact with people, including but not limited to… Read More »
Daycare Is for Divorced Co-Parents, Too
Even before social media ramped up the ugliness surrounding virtually every subject of discussion, the so-called “mommy wars” raged in print journalism and on text-only online message boards accessed from desktop computers. Women who did not work outside the home shamed mothers who relied on employment income for sending their children to daycare while… Read More »
Moving Forward After an Unsuccessful Business Venture Tanks Your Marriage and Your Finances
A few weeks ago, someone who had made an unsuccessful bid for social media stardom wrote to Money Made about how to move on from this mistake. The letter writer had a cute dog who didn’t mind being dressed in costumes and photographed, so she decided to try to monetize her social media accounts… Read More »
Agreeing to Sell Your Marital Home When You Divorce Is Just the Beginning
Disagreements about whether to go the DIY route or whether to hire someone to help with a challenging project have caused conflict in many marriages. You and your spouse might not agree on whether the money you will spend hiring a new contractor is worth it for the time and stress you will save… Read More »
Husband’s Behavior Toward His Wife and the Divorce Court Leads to Steep Financial Penalties
Many couples who go through divorce resolve to have the least messy divorce possible. They compromise on things that are important to them, even if it means debts that will take them years to pay off after the divorce is final, just so their children will not have to witness a protracted conflict. Therefore,… Read More »
Lamentations of a Default Parent
If you are your children’s default parent, you are probably painfully aware of it. You know you are the default parent when your kids are sitting on the couch, watching TV with your spouse, and they call you to bring them a snack. The default parent wipes every nose, schedules every appointment, fills out… Read More »
How to Adjust to Court-Ordered Time Away From Your Children
Parenting feels like a never-ending struggle; it has ruined many marriages that once seemed unbreakable. No matter how much parenting responsibility your spouse takes on, it seems like there is always something for you to do. You are always brushing your children’s hair, picking up their toys, scheduling doctors’ appointments for them, packing their… Read More »
Seeing Past the Financial Setbacks of Divorce
Your magnanimity helped you stay married for as long as you did. You always tried to live below your means, and you never gave your spouse a hard time about spending, especially when your spouse was using marital funds to be generous to other people, whether it was extended family members, friends, or charitable… Read More »